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Op-Ed: I think I just “unliked” Facebook

Anyone with a milkshake fetish living in the Bangor-Orono area had the closest thing they could get to child porn this summer thanks to a certain alternative weekly, The Maine Edge. On the cover – which the paper has since apologized for – was the image of a woman with a notably youthful appearance suggestively straddling a milkshake. The reason? To illustrate an included article: A powerhouse of investigative journalism that dared to ask whether you could put alcohol into a milkshake. Turns out that yes, you can.

The paper faced the backlash publications tend to face when they use sexually suggestive images of child-like, albeit legal-aged, women to sell their stories. And, as I mentioned, it apologized. So what’s the big deal?

I’m no prude. But I am concerned about the use of women who look like children being used in a sexual manner, because I hold the uncontroversial position that pedophilia is a bad thing. Children should never be ‘hot.’

So I did what any college-aged guy with a chip on his shoulder might do: I created a Facebook group, “I Hate The Maine Edge,” and invited some sympathetic friends. It got up to about 46 members when I received the following message from Facebook:

“The group ‘I Hate The Maine Edge’ has been removed because it violated our Terms of Use. Among other things, groups that are hateful, threatening, or obscene are not allowed. We also take down groups that attack an individual or group, or advertise a product or service. Continued misuse of Facebook’s features could result in your account being disabled.”

This is where I got annoyed.

Facebook is not merely a site for posting pics of drunken escapades. It is quickly becoming a powerful collection of personal information: It has access to your spending habits, personal interests, work and educational histories, who you are friends with, who you date and what kind of products you buy.

Stupidly, we give this information away based on the assumption that Facebook has made an unspoken promise to its usersT The idea is that we give up that data in exchange for our ability to communicate with friends, to share experiences and information. Facebook gets that data too; but for most of us it’s worth it because, who cares? We don’t have any information to hide.

The problem emerges when Facebook begins to censor our information about negative experiences. Complaining about a local newspaper that contributed to the sexualization of children in our culture is not ‘hateful.’ It’s a way to question the logic and values of our media landscape.

The World Wide Web is a place where people finally get to talk back to the media and to each other: to ask questions, criticize, probe and improve. When one of the largest, most powerful sites on the Web blocks our ability to ask questions and share grievances, it is taking away one of the inherent promises of the Web: Freedom of Speech.

Now, Freedom of Speech is only a legal right when it comes to what the government can and cannot do. But we have a choice over whether or not to make use of corporations and entities that embrace freedom of speech. It is more important when it concerns a corporation actively archiving our entire personal history. I want some assurances that they’re going to act in a straightforward, trustworthy manner and not bend to someone’s complaint about my opinions when I complain about the corporate environment.

I’ll give Facebook all of my personal data, but I want it to preserve my right to complain about stuff. Take that away, and I’m left with a site that only allows me to speak positively about corporate products while it takes careful notes about all of my daily actions and threatens to separate me from my friends and family if I question any larger, more powerful forms of media.

If it seems like Big Brother, you’re as crazy as I am. But there’s a great big box on top of my news feed, warning me that I messed with the wrong guys. So be careful: If you mess with Facebook, you don’t just lose access to a Web site, but to pieces of your personal history and connections to your friends and family. It is too much power for a site to have.

Eryk Salvaggio left the group “Facbook fans.”

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  • james

    Maybe facbook was just telling you that your hate group was a waste of time. In my IMO, if you wanted to hurt The Maine Edge, you should’ve written articles for them.

  • Robert

    Your just a geek who apparently doesn’t get out much. It was just an article – not porn (you wish I’m sure). She did look young – but if she was 50 you’d have a comment on that.
    The Maine Edge is an alternative paper which is actually refreshing for once here in the Bangor area. I personally didn’t really like the cover, but heck I didn’t like it when the BDN put a dead body on the front cover when 9/11 happened. We all get over it. Why don’t you use Facebook to hook up – you’d feel much better.

  • Eryk Salvaggio

    Hi Robert;
    I’m the author of the article. I’m curious as to what you think The Edge is an ‘alternative’ to.

    I see it primarily as a vehicle for selling advertisements. Most of the content is Associated Press articles that are published in newspapers across the country. What ‘alternative’ views do you find in The Maine Edge that you can’t get elsewhere? You seem very defensive about the paper so I assume you like their content. I’d be curious to hear what you like about it.

    Secondly, I have no problem with 50-year-old women having sex with gigantic milkshakes.

    If you have a spare second to tear yourself away from getting laid on Facebook, I’d be curious about your answers.

  • http://www.bringbackthisweekinsex.com ZD

    I smell a spinoff column: This Week in Sex With Milkshakes.

  • UmWhat

    How dare they make money and pay their staff?! More people must be told!

    Keep up the crack reporting.

  • Eryk

    Umwhat-
    From what I hear, you don’t pay your staff very well. I have no problem with newspapers selling ads to survive and I understand that your paper has to to survive. What I question is what your paper actually does for this community with it’s emphasis on AP content and police reports.

    For example, why do a cover story about blogs on the weekend of the folk festival? I’m curious as to what made you guys make that decision?

  • http://francophonerss.com Ackert

    Umwhat-
    From what I hear, you don't pay your staff very well. I have no problem with newspapers selling ads to survive and I understand that your paper has to to survive. What I question is what your paper actually does for this community with it's emphasis on AP content and police reports.

    For example, why do a cover story about blogs on the weekend of the folk festival? I'm curious as to what made you guys make that decision?…

  • Robert

    Do you really think I’m the only one who likes this paper. Half the time I have if I don’t get out early on Wednesday morning I have to search a place who might still have the paper. It’s seems to be very popular and I have many friends who like it as well.
    I do like their content – even the AP stuff. The Maine Edge is entertaining. Plus all papers use other sources for stories even our over priced Bangor Daily News. Have you read that paper? Plus it’s not cheap. I get their news on my computer. I’m not saying that The Maine Edge should go daily, but for a free weekly I find it humorous, entertaining and informative. I like their calendar page, the sports section, the business section – actually the entire paper.
    I also see that you didn’t like their Blogging story. Should they have written about the Folk Festival like every other media source. It’s was over done as is. Plus maybe they were keeping it low key due to people like you who were offended by the previous cover.
    Why not embrase a new business in our community. I’ve been reading The Maine Edge for some time now – I’ don’t know what they get paid and I’m sure you don’t either – but they must be enjoying it at least it seems like they are having fun.

  • In The Ruff

    I do some work for The Edge… Amazingly, i get paid just what they offered me when they offered me the job, and even more jaw dropping, it’s on time!!! And, to top it all off, i find it to be a decent enough paying job to keep going back. Reporting facts are one thing, and stating your opinion is totally understandable, and acceptable, if you can handle other people’s reactions and thoughts on it, but if you don’t know what you’re talking about, if you’re just throwing things out there in hopes that something, anything might hit the mark, you’re just making yourself look foolish, and just a bit desperate…

  • Ryan Page

    my troll sense is tingling.

  • In The Ruff

    seriously, you just called me a troll? lol guess i’m not sure how to take that… but perhaps you should get that checked out…?

  • Ryan Page

    I apologize, I was not trying to imply that you live in Nilbog, and turn people into plants for food, but rather that you were using a false identity to make it look like there is support for your paper.

    You, either own, or work for the Maine Edge. Your comments are much too fake. Try a little less emphasis on how good the paper is next time. It will be more convincing.

    Oftentimes it is good to drop words like “free speech” and maybe question the author’s sexuality. You came close to believability with the “you can’t get laid” spiel, but it just wasn’t enough.

    You sir, or madam, can go bang a milkshake.

  • In The Ruff

    If you look at the very first line of MY comment, you’ll see that i did in fact state, that “I do some work for The Edge.” I was only saying that they pay me a fair wage, & that if someone is going to report on something, it should be about facts, not about things that they “had heard.” Do you figure that there’s only one person reading this, & therefore only one person commenting?

  • Ryan Page

    No, but I do figure, since you replied to my reply to robert’s comment with a claim of being personally offended, that you and robert were in fact the same person.

    oops… busted

  • In The Ruff

    I am in fact not “Robert”, I just wanted to put my 2 cents in, but I see that you can’t really, as people will see what they want…

  • Ryan Page

    “seriously, you just called me a troll? ”

    that statement was in reference to “robert”

    that’s not putting your two cents in. That’s referring to “robert” as “me”.

    If you are not Robert then your understanding of pronouns is about as sophisticated as your understanding of journalism.