When I testified at the judicial hearing in favor of Maine’s marriage equality law, I had a gut feeling that by the end of the year, I would see a vote on it. Unfortunately, my instincts were correct.
The most common estimation out there suggests that one in ten human beings is homosexual. Sometimes the numbers are higher, sometimes lower. The point is, we are a minority. Barring some disturbing advances in experimental biology, we will remain a minority. Why should the rights of the minority be put in the hands of the majority to be decided upon? Imagine if you had to visit every house in Maine to ask each citizen personally for permission to marry someone. It’s a ridiculous notion, isn’t it? How is the people’s veto on this issue any different?
My objections to this have nothing to do with outcomes. I would be extremely surprised if the marriage equality law was voted down. Mainers have already affirmed gay rights in the past using a referendum: The independent spirit of this state usually affirms the expansion of liberty, not its restriction.
But this is a disturbing way for a minority to gain rights. Why should our liberties depend on the beneficence of the majority? History shows us one of the key functions of our representative democracy is to protect the rights of minorities in the face of hostile majorities. When civil rights were finally affirmed for non-whites in America, it was because of Congress. When state governments refused to protect those rights, the federal government had to send in the National Guard. If it wasn’t for that Congress and that president, the rights of the few would have been the choice of the many.
I’ve heard many argue that they simply don’t care. They don’t think they’ll ever be a part of a minority, so why should they encourage the protection of minority rights? The fact is, they’re wrong. Everyone is in the minority at some point. That’s what it means to be a human being. Even the most average person in America is in the minority because of her averageness. Are you male? Do you have blue eyes? Do you like to wear Crocs? You’re part of a minority.
Others argue that legalizing marriage equality will have drastic effects on our society. They don’t want to see children learn about same-sex unions in school or businesses forced to recognize the rights of these now-legal marriages. I find it presumptuous of any business to tell the state what should or should not be legal. That is why the bill went through so many months of legislative debate. As for the question of public schooling, I don’t have an easy answer. The hard answer is that we cannot ever completely control the environment in which our children grow up, and some have had the bad luck to be a parent during an era when the expansion of freedom has triumphed over outdated societal norms. On the other hand, if your child is in the 10 percent of Mainers who will grow up to be attracted to members of their own sex, would you want them to be discriminated against or shunned?
I encourage you to vote this fall, and I encourage you to vote no on Question 1, which would help make marriage equality a reality in Maine. Just because a system is flawed doesn’t mean we shouldn’t take the opportunity to make lives better. I can’t wait for the bout of parties and ceremonies I’ll get to attend with my friends this winter to celebrate their unions.
But as you vote, watch marriage equality become a reality, and witness the first marriage celebrations, consider why we had to wait this long. If you are a heterosexual, consider why you should even be asked about someone else’s marriage. If you get a chance to contact the federal government, the state government, the governor or president, let them know that you want that ability taken out of your hands. Tell them they don’t need your permission to defend the weak against the arbitrary opinions of the masses.
Samantha Hansen is a third-year political science student.












