For two weeks, we have been subject to stares, slurs and harassment everyday. This is our reality. This is our life. This is the gay community. We have heard from people who have accused us of wanting to destroy society, people who feel “unsafe” because there is a pride flag on the mall (which was, at one point, stolen), and people who have deemed us unfit for equal rights because we are “a pack of queers.”
All of this in Orono, Maine — your community, which has become rampant with the sort of bigotry and prejudice that brings to mind radical racism of the 1960s. We are the minority for whom too few stand up and say: “You have been wronged!” Last Wednesday, Dean of Students Robert Dana stood up and did just that in the face of anti-gay sentiment in the state of Maine. He has been chastised for defending us, and some have called for him to be fired.
There are those who might say voting yes on Question 1 was a reflection of personal beliefs, not a form of homophobia. But a yes vote was a vote against civil rights and equality. A yes vote was a prejudiced vote because regardless of where you stand, this was never a political or religious issue. This was a moral issue, and many have failed to see the side that is right.
Regardless of religious beliefs on homosexuality, marriage is a civil right. This was the context of Dana’s speech. He stood on the mall to defend a minority that has been denied basic equal rights that are afforded to all other Americans. We are a minority that is demonized by the right as something that threatens America. Former Republican Sen. Rick Santorum once asked, “Isn’t that the ultimate homeland security, standing up and defending marriage?”
Are we really so threatening we should be targeted by the same department that protects Americans from terrorists? Now, more than ever, we need someone to stand up for us and to assert we are not a danger to this country or this community, but are open and active members of it, fighting for our rights.
Despite their victory over equality at the ballot box — or maybe because of it — opponents of marriage equality have stepped up their attacks on the GLBT community. One member of Wilde Stein was told while canvassing for the No on 1 campaign that all gay people should be sent to an island to die because they are disgusting. This is the cultural climate we live in. Many of our daily lives are punctuated by incidents like this. These incidents happen with a regularity that is alarming. To hear Dana, a respected member of our community, suggest we are deserving of equal rights in a safe place was a great relief.
It may be unprecedented for an administrator to choose sides on these sorts of issues. If Dana had stood up 40 years ago and said about black people what he said last Wednesday about the GLBT community, he would have received the same reaction from groups and individuals that we see today as antiquated organs of hate and prejudice. Dana was not taking a political stance, condemning Republicans or Democrats or chastising voters for their choices on taxes or political reform. He was taking a stand on civil rights — rights that ought to be guaranteed by the very principles that legitimize our government and our political culture.
The Wilde Stein Alliance for Sexual Diversity unequivocally stands behind Dana and his speech and urges all faculty and staff members at the University of Maine to defend the civil rights of all Americans regardless of their sexual orientation.
Zachary Knox is president of Wilde Stein. Kendra Schindler contributed to this article.












